I have been wanting to write down some things that I have learned during this pregnancy for posterity (aka baby #2 Lord willing) and also so I don't forget pregnancy with all the craziness of having a newborn, moving, and trying to figure out this next season of life.
1st Trimester:
"Every pregnancy is different"
Morning Sickness - not as bad as I expected. I think I had feared pregnancy because I had heard so many horror stories about nausea and vomiting - no thank you. But in the end I was surprised that it wasn't as bad as I thought. Here was the secret I discovered. Eat a "white diet". My daily routine: Breakfast - Frosted Mini Wheat's, Snack - 1/2 plain bagel w/cream cheese, Lunch - Turkey sandwich on white bread, Snack - french fries, Snack - other 1/2 of bagel w/cream cheese, Dinner - something with veggies.
Aches & Pains - I had never heard anyone say anything about how your guts ache during the first trimester so that caught me off guard. Especially since you have no idea what is going on during your first pregnancy and are worried that they uncomfortableness in your guts may be something wrong. One of my friends said, yeah, your guts have to move out of the way for the baby and that takes some effort. Thank goodness for friends who tell it like it is.
Books: wish I would have started "I'm having a baby, Help me Lord" devotional.
Your Pregnancy Week by Week - better than "What to Expect"
Second Trimester:
"The comfortably pregnant stage"
The body pillow theory - Every book I read, every friend I talked to, said get a body pillow and stick it between your legs, you'll be more comfy. NOT ME!!! The pillow theory actually hurt my legs and hips more. I don't know if this is because I am naturally a side sleeper but I threw that pillow out and no more hip & leg pain. Whew!!!
Fiber - Metamucil = no help, other brands that dissolve in anything = even less help, adding 1/2 wheat flour to anything I could = correct answer. Turns out that Pancakes 100% whole wheat, cookies 50% whole wheat, and berry bars 50% whole wheat, all did what Metamucil only dreamed of. Enough said:)
Movement - "you'll just know" when you feel movement for the first time. NOT ME!!! It was very frustrating to feel something but not be sure. It is such a tiny feeling that the only thing that keyed me into what it was was the location I was feeling it in. Then as the movements get stronger I was wondering why mom's like it. It wasn't very comfortable. Like a brother or sister poking at me all the time:) That changed during the end of the 2nd Trimester and the start of the 3rd. With less room she moved less and I loved feeling her move around. It is like a charades game where she's trying to act out who she is. I think she is great already.
Books: Baby Wise - reasonable schedule expectations and ideas
A Mothers Heart - expectations and focus for the direction of our family.
Third Trimester:
"Worrying takes on a whole new meaning when you become a parent"
Worry - No amount of books, talking to other people, setting up a baby room, or trying to organize and control what I can will fix the worry that floats around inside of my head. At this point I wish I would have focused more on God's Word than all the million books I had read. Realizing that a few key verses were what guided me all along, comforted me, and brought me closer to God make me realize that, while books are good information, only the Word of God can truly calm a stormy heart and anxious thoughts. Though I still get "excited" sometimes by the news and information, I am excited about what the Bible has shown me about being a parent.
Propping - Leg cramping, aka Charlie Horses, in the middle of the night are for the birds. Extremely propping myself up with 2 pillows at night when I sleep is the key. No charlie horses and an added bonus of no stuffy nose in the morning sold me on this little trick. Still no pillow between the legs though, that lead to instant leg aches.
TUMS - are my friend. Acid reflux and heart burn visit most evenings.
Books: Parenting from Surviving to Thriving
Well I guess those are the really important things I want to remember for now. I may have to add or take away. Maybe some of the books will change once baby gets here but for now these are the things that worked. For this pregnancy:)